After marriage, every couple’s dream is to have a child. Children are no doubt a source of happiness.
How long and how far. Until they behave according to our wish and will. Lest, we will blast them with our wordy bombs.
When we fail to mind our tone and words, sorry, we are doing harm to our children that even the good would turn bad in them.
Still I can remember with bitterness my father’s tone and words when I could not recite a verse from my language book. Every time when I see a language text book, I go down the memory lane to feel sad and bad. My father is no more and I am in the wrong side of fifties.!! Such is the impact of tone and words that we use to our children.
Children are too tender to withstand your wordy onslaughts. The words and tone linger forever in this subconscious mind and in most of the cases, they are unable to do good for which those words were uttered by their parents. This is the impact of those words uttered in uncouth tone.
Even when your children do wrong, please hug them and talk to them in a husky lovable voice – appreciate and highlight the good in them and tell them how and why they do wrongs.
You know my dear friends – such talk becomes the INNER VOICE of those children. Whenever they come across such situation in life at any stage, the INNER VOICE will be heard by them.
Please make their inner voice a memorable one with a lot of love and joy and happiness.
Never shout at Children.